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Wednesday, March 3, 2010

True love...True Love...?????


I was going through a friend of mine blog, and she written about her true love, something hint me what's this thing is really about, so i decide to do some research i know it's weird but her words encourage to do so.

Like leprechauns and unicorns the search for true love can seem like a fantasy that will never come true, but rest assured, you will find "the one" one day. In fact, as you head down the path of life you are likely to find a few "the ones", that is you are likely to fall in love more than once. How can you tell the difference between love-right-now and the-right-and-true-love? You can't really. Each and every time you fall in love it will feel like the real and final deal and it will be true?


It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want something else. The misunderstanding will starts when this infatuated lovers find out they have nothing in common and at times they don’t even know what to talk to each other, that’s bad isn’t it.
Another group of people with lack support, care, attention to their person or they just scared to be single. Have a different point of view, for this group of people being with someone can be a habit when one simply get used by another, it can either be a sick addiction or some self interest. This people call this kind of relationship as “just by mistake” or “ trying to conceal the true nature of it”…weird


But what does real love look and how does it feel? Well it could be either the two people seems to know each other for ages and even from their previous lives. These two people can go on talking and the conversations never lacks of topic and they never get dull of it. There are some don’t even talk but they able to understand each other well, without word , the silence moment never make them uncomfortable.
In my view I would say, true love means understanding, one trusts another more than him / her and feels ready to satisfy every little needs. If you really love someone you may say “ I belong to you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.


But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this. We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved




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